Why do many middle-aged and old people like square dance in China? Why do they enjoy it?

 In fact, the elderly dance square dance, healthy body and discharge some disturbing, happy mood! The elderly account for one in five. The entertainment position, the square dance this activity has occupied, the old people's life only then has rushes forward. In addition, let the elderly in their spare time to watch TV ads, watch celebrities do publicity for some companies, cheat the elderly to buy those useless health care products and daily necessities. Let the elderly go through the east gate and the west gate to believe in religion. Square dance positive energy, you do not occupy, bad people will guide the elderly in the wrong place. Of course, square dance also needs the correct management of relevant departments, such as time, place and volume. Timely find out the wrong person or bad phenomenon and correct or deal with it.

It is found that the people who make fun of the elderly should be unfilial or have lost the propriety and morality advocated by the state. Although they know a few words, they forget the fine traditions of their ancestors.

Including those who are worried about the old people driving scooters and advocate prohibition!

Square dancing should also be performed according to one's own body. If elderly people with synovitis, knee joint, hypertension and heart disease do not approve of square dancing, it will aggravate the disease.

Dancing square dance has become a kind of fun, a way of entertainment for middle-aged and elderly people.

In particular, the elderly believe that square dancing can exercise. So I'm not tired of square dancing.

Everything should be measured, excessive will inevitably lead to a lot of health problems.

Therefore, we should also avoid excessive entertainment and combine work with rest.

After all, time does not spare people!

Nowadays, women in their 50s, 60s and even 70s are all young people in the cultural revolution, and the most energetic years are in that period. Then there's work and family. Reform and opening up, they have basically passed the age of 60, four, five, six. And then they're out of the game. The body is still alive, the brain is still alive, the heart is still unwilling. Although it's not a long way to go to old Yama's house, there is still a long way to go. How do you spend this time? When children are big, birds fly. The work unit has become a memory. Whether sun ban can bring it or not is not a legal service content.

Moral kidnapping keeps loose with individual will. Twenty four hours a day, 365 days a year. The time of responsibility is short, the time of hate is short, and the time of no responsibility is long. Why can't I get it. Can't go back? Traveling every day seems to be no good at all. Going crazy every day is like a couple of women with yellow faces. They have no new ideas and passion to speak of. Even if they stay in the fighting room for a long time and face the young people, they will not have that kind of fierce style and pride. Think twice, square dance seems to be the only way to settle down. As for personal gains and losses, social effects, different people have different opinions.

It's a good activity and sport. But I hope you can choose the right place to dance, and never disturb the people, including those who sing. Disturbing the people must be annoying. I hope that we old people can improve our self-cultivation and quality, and that young people can understand old people more.

When these poor middle-aged and old people were young, not many people had the opportunity to learn football, basketball, table tennis, fitness and other sports. Even if they had learned, they could not engage in such sports because of the decline of field conditions and physical ability. Traditional Chinese culture is not scientific to explain sports and fitness. Aerobic exercise and muscle enhancement are not clear. We only think that we can move after meals. This is the reason why square dance, which is easy to learn and cost-free, is popular. Of course, the effect of exercise is different. In a word, it is better to move than not to move.

We must face up to and respect the survival of the elderly, and the state must pay attention to the elderly. Parks and squares are really their only places to go, talking, chatting, entertainment, dating, exercising Whether it affects the normal life and work of government units and ordinary citizens, communities, streets and neighborhood committees should standardize their management. We must not let it go or ban it blindly. Community management is the general trend of social security, social order and community life.

The old people's square dance shows that people's living standard has improved, which proves that our country is rich and strong, people are no longer worried about the three universal suffrage in one day, and the old people are healthy and happy. What's wrong with that? But there are some people who find fault. According to their ideas, what should old people look like? Play mahjong every day, cook for you every day, coax your children, give you your pension, and don't clean your house anywhere. That's your will. It's not just selfish, it's immoral. Although there are some unsatisfactory places in square dance, most of them are full of positive energy and can't kill all people with one stick. Besides, there are no perfect things in the world, so it's only summer to be afraid of mosquitoes. In fact, people who ask such questions are as hateful as mosquitoes.

In fact, in these people dancing, there are all kinds of mentality. One is to exercise and pursue health. Second, people who want to be slim and lose weight. Third, retired people who have nothing to do. Fourth, people who can't stand loneliness. Fifth, single people are looking for opportunities to hunt for beauty. Others are good at showing off in front of others. In fact, these people are "idle" in one word. Over the years, square dance has indeed brought happiness to some people who love entertainment! At the same time, it also brings troubles to the residents' life. One dance, two dances and three hugs to the next generation of the motherland. You jump, I jump, no matter whether the city is quiet or not, subwoofer, loudspeaker, a shock eardrum, such as shooting. It's right to dance, but it's wrong to set up the challenge arena without restraint, just for personal enjoyment, regardless of other people's feelings.

On the relationship between mother in law and daughter in law in China and the United States

 My husband and I have nothing to say. That's why we know each other and love each other. The topics we discussed are very extensive, but the most common topics are economy, real estate, political environment, family and marriage.

Recently, I watched a TV play "mother-in-law is coming", which talked about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and all kinds of contradictions around this theme. In my opinion, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mainly about mutual understanding and mutual concession. It's really a "step back, sea and sky". In fact, the relationship between husband and wife is the same. We all give in. Many problems have been solved and the family will be harmonious.

When I said that the old people like to get up early and the younger people like to sleep late, the old people are busy doing this and that, and the noise is loud, which wakes up their daughter-in-law. As a result, they don't like each other. My husband said, "they like to get up early and get up late. They can't blame each other. Late risers can say to early risers, "can you be as quiet as possible?" It's much better to talk in a deliberative tone and show respect for each other. " (this is just an example. There are many root causes of contradictions in our life. It comes down to the most fundamental point. There seem to be more cases of economic intensification.)

In fact, it's just that they don't understand their own habits and different views under different living backgrounds. They can't say which is right or wrong. If they look at it from the perspective of their mother-in-law, their mother-in-law is right, but from the perspective of their daughter-in-law, their daughter-in-law is right. That's why it's hard for honest officials to break up housework. As a result, people didn't pay attention to what they said, causing the whole family to quarrel, resulting in a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and even the relationship between husband and wife.

My husband said that he saw an article saying that the tone of Chinese people's speech is different from that of Westerners. Chinese people speak differently to their family, friends and strangers. The more polite they are, the more alienated they are. On the contrary, they don't have to pay so much attention to speaking to their families. They don't like to say "thank you" and "love you".

It's true, but this way will make family members misunderstand and each other because of the tone. As a result, small things become endless quarrels, which makes the family not quiet. It's better for family members to pay attention to the tone when they speak. It's the same between husband and wife, not to mention between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. A family should speak more tactfully, which can avoid many misunderstandings and reduce many contradictions.

Although my husband is an American, he likes a big family. As long as he doesn't care about each other, he can get along well with everyone. Even if my parents live with him, he doesn't care. Many people say that Westerners do not like to live with their parents. In fact, this is not the case. Especially in the past, many Westerners lived with their parents when they were old and cared for their parents until they died. Of course, when their parents were willing, they mainly respected their parents' wishes.

I find that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the west is not so bad. I see that some of my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well with each other, and they are friendly. I don't know if I know them less? Or people here don't like gossip, so I haven't heard so many difficult relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? But there is one thing that Westerners do speak politely, no matter to family members, friends, neighbors or strangers. Secondly, people get along with each other with mutual respect, especially respect for each person's different living habits, views, opinions and private secrets. What's more, they don't want to be curious. What's more, as long as they can pay for their own money, they will be happy They like to manage themselves and not interfere with each other. Parents will not interfere with the income and expenditure of their daughter-in-law, whether their daughter-in-law has children or not, or even whether their son is married or not. At most, parents make suggestions. Even if they make suggestions, they won't hurt each other's feelings by saying so directly. On the contrary, parents are more encouraging and say nice things, and so are the daughters in law and sons in law. Personally, I think these may be a foundation for parents to get along well with their daughter-in-law and son-in-law. Therefore, there are not so many incidents such as mutual accusations or even quarrels, so there will be more harmony.

What are the differences between Chinese and American wedding customs

 Chinese people - the luxury wedding car is not a brand-name team, or the quantity conquers the quality. Banquet, two Bai people get married, ten people serve, how to say, less ten tables, more than dozens of tables, that is to see your family's relatives and friends, or people who have relations with the bride and groom will come. Spectacular banquet, more than 100 people as the base. Gift money, the man should give the woman money, now there is a custom, In order to catch up with the fashion, the Chinese usually change their wedding dress three times, including wedding dress, Chinese style dress and a formal red suit. The wedding photos range from thousands to tens of thousands, Men are platinum rings, and a few men still buy diamonds. Honeymoon, the modern honeymoon that Chinese people pay attention to, is always going abroad. If it's less, they have to go to Hong Kong. Then there are gifts and cash gifts. Chinese people pay attention to giving money, which is less than 50, but more than tens of thousands, Now the premise of marriage is the house and the car. Who dares to marry without this girl? Then talk about the wedding of foreigners. A simple family wedding, a small church, a car in the past, a wedding banquet mainly in the form of self-help. The blessing of both parents, A pair of simple wedding rings. Their wedding photo is also a simple photo in the park. A beautiful natural photo. Small gifts from relatives and friends. A simple honeymoon trip. The wedding is over